“Don't be a garbage can.”
"Eat Right"
Make the commitment for yourself and your children to eat healthy food. You will feel better, have more energy, and sleep more soundly. As you combine eating nutritious foods with regular exercise and a good night’s rest, you will be much, much happier (and nicer). You can bring your family together once in a week for physical exercise, it acts as a form of reunion and also an avenue to discuss.
If you want to live longer and be strong for your family, you don't want to be a burden to the family, you need to eat well, eat more of veggies and fruits. Not all food is good for you. FOCUS ON YOUR HEALTH AND THAT OF YOUR FAMILY.
2. WORK ON YOUR ATTITUDE
“Bad attitude is like a flat tyre, it takes you nowhere”
Your attitude takes you a long way, take note of those attitudes you need to work on, and just determine to be better. Remember you are getting better for yourself. Your attitude determines your you can hold on when you get up, there is a popular saying that says your work and qualification can take you up, but your attitude keeps you there.
3. BE A HOMEMAKER
"Your house should be clean and well arranged
Don't ever use your kids as an excuse for a dirty house, they are what you train them to be, teach them to be organized and responsible and you will tend to worry less about dirty dishes, dirty clothes, scattered library, and co. Make your home habitable, it creates confidence when you have guests.
4. DRESS YOUR BEST, BE TRENDY
"You don't need expensive clothes to Slay"
"You can be cheap and trendy"
"Don’t be a Slob"
"Always remember that there is something called DECENCY"
Dress your best always, you are not competing with anyone, you are painting an image of who you are, it gives your children a sense of belonging and it makes them have confidence in you more, they will want all their friends to meet you, Be in the face of your husband always, don’t always conceal those shapes for him, he needs to be constantly reminded of what a great woman he has got.
5. HAVE THE RIGHT INFORMATION
"Knowledge of Current affairs is not a sin"
"You don’t want to look like a fool during group discussions"
Get to know what is trending at every moment, always be informed, so that you will be able to relate well with your children, you don’t want to be lost when they are having their discussions, Be conversant with news and happenings, don't ever ignore slangs, know the meaning so that when your children speak it, you get to know if it’s appropriate or not. Men are always proud of a wife that can be involved in discussions when they are with their friends. It shows how intelligent you are when you have the right information for all discussion.
6. BE A GIVER
"Giving is not all about Money"
“Giving is Sacrificial”
Give constantly, it teaches your children charity and it prepares your children for the care you will need in your old age. Don't ever ignore people's need, you don't need a river to give a drop of water, give the little you can. Give your time, space, advice, material things, and prayers.
7. THINK BIG, YOU'VE GOT A LIFE
"You are not poor, even when you are in need"
"Poverty is a thing of the mind"
Don't ever look at yourself as a poor person; you can get anything you need. You might not have it now; it does not mean you won’t have it later. Have a dream, if it’s too big, it’s a good dream. Try to approach your dream in stages, don't stop. Your thinking is who you become. DON'T EVER USE YOUR CHILDREN TO FULFIL YOUR OWN DREAM, THEY'VE GOT THEIRS TOO. Be who you want to be, the fact that you are a woman does not mean you can’t do exploit.
8. KNOW HOW TO OPERATE APPLIANCES
"Technology is not a disease, see it as a blessing"
Some women so go to the length of not knowing how to switch on their television, no matter how old you are, you are not too old, we have 80-year-old grandmothers that are on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram. You don't have to wait for your husband when things go wrong with appliances, Google facts, read manuals, don’t ever be ignorant, it makes you look incompetent to your children. Learn from others when they are working on appliances, don't wait for your kids to change TV channels for you. Get up and improve yourself.
9. SELF HYGIENE IS IMPORTANT
"Neat people, gets more attention than dirty ones"
"Scientist discover that your smell can determine how attractive you are"
Imagine you going for an interview and smelling awful? an applicant that smells good has a high chance of getting a job than the smelly one, you don’t need expensive perfume to smell nice, everyone sweats and this gives our body a natural smell which can sometimes be offensive. Always try to wear a fragrance, a underarm roll on can do, use soaps with fragrance, drink a lot of water, take your bath as soon as you can to get off the bad smell. Smell nice! it attracts favor.
10. BE A GREAT CHEF! (GREAT COOK)
"Have a secret recipe that you can pass down your generation"
"Be ready to learn new cooking tricks"
If you eat the same type of food every day it could be boring, learn to make something special occasionally. Learn how to cook from websites and blogs, Surprise your family occasionally, it makes them love you and it creates a good memory.
11.USE YOUR INTERNET FACILITY FOR SOMETHING PRODUCTIVE
"Most women waste time and resources surfing the wrong places on the internet"
"Add value to yourself"
Don't just watch videos online, don't read gossips and fake news, read articles that can improve any aspect of your life. Search for the article on how to improve your home, attitude, childcare and other important things.
12 WATCH THE PAGES AND GROUP YOU JOIN ON SOCIAL MEDIA
"You become what you feed your mind gradually"
"Any association that does not add to you, will destroy you eventually"
There are so many social groups online that women join to read posts and articles, be careful not to feed your mind with junks, what you read gradually affects your orientation and makes you gradually change who you are. watch out!
13 BE CREATIVE IN THE OTHER ROOM.
"Don't ever be predictable in bed"
"Make your husband always long for it"
Remember you are going to live 80% of your life married if you choose to be and you don't want to be bored for 80% of your life, be creative and be your husband’s friend. Don't ever give up on each other when it comes to sex.
14. EVEN AS YOU SLAY, PLEASE PRAY
"Prayer is VERY Important"
"Prayer is the fuel for Christian"
The importance of prayer cannot be overemphasized, in good times, bad times, in all times PRAY.
15 DON’T EVER BE IDLE
“An idle hand is the devil workshop”
“Be focused, earn a living”
Make sure you are busy always, make money, contribute to the family, don’t ever be a liability. Focus on being industrious.
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