........ for the children of this world are in their generation wiser than the children of light. Luke 16:8. I believe this happens because they have the right information. Wisdom is profitable to direct so GET WISDOM.
Most Christian men really expect a lot from their wives, but they fail to pass the information because of religious thinking or beliefs, or because they don't want to hurt her feeling, which sometimes leads to communication breakdown, some men just want to enjoy their family.
1. BE GENUINE
They want genuine love, which to them, is respect not affection, Don't mix it up! Don't fake anything, be as real as possible.
2. INITIATE SEX
They want their wife to initiate sex sometimes, they don't want a boring woman in bed, don't be too spiritual about it, sex is not a sin in marriage. Be creative, don't make it boring. Sent random sexy messages to Him.
3. BE PROACTIVE
No one wants a partner that can't think and make vital decisions when they are not present. The family should be safe in a woman's hand even without the spouse. They love a smart woman, they are always proud of their wife's achievement and may sometimes not say it.
4. BE PRAYERFUL
They want a prayerful wife, they believe in their wife's prayer. A mothers prayer for the family goes a long way.
5. PAMPER THEM
They want to be pampered by their wife at all times, even when they are far older than their wife,
6. ACKNOWLEDGE THAT THEY ARE HUMAN
They sometimes make mistakes, and they don't want you to throw it in their face all the time, we all need strength to grow together and overcome our weaknesses.
7. BE TRENDY
Men care about their wife's appearance, even though you've got a lot of responsibility, a man still wants to see the same girl he met from the start, they want to be proud of their spouse appearance at any time.
8. RESPECT THEIR OPINION
They want you to trust their judgement, they hate it when you try to force your opinion on them.
9. DON'T BE INSECURE
They want you to trust them and feel secured, your feeling of insecurity hurts them.
10. BE APPRECIATIVE
They want to be appreciated for their sacrifices, a simple "Thank You" will go a long way in their heart. They expect surprises from their wife most times, They are happy when their wife genuinely appreciate their efforts.
11. BE LIVELY
They don't just want you to be tongue speaking, they also want you to be interesting and fun to be with. No one wants to live a life of boredom in marriage.
12. RESPECT THEIR INTERESTS
The fact that they watch football or any other sport does not mean they don't love you. it might is a very important part of their life you have to adapt to. They want you to know that their interest in sports is not a sin!
13. ASSURANCE OF HIS LOVE
They don't value their cars more than you, they are just protecting their possession, You cant be replaced with a car.
14. NO EXTERNAL ATTENTION
They want you to be stylish but they feel uncomfortable when another man gives you too much attention.
15. BE DISCIPLINED IN CHURCH
They just want you to be involved in church activities, not church gossip. Men want their spouse to relate but they don't want anyone disrespecting their wife.
16. CHILD CARE AND TRAINING
As much as the care and training of a child is done by both parents, Christian men believe the mother has more grip on their children, they want the mother to pass down good values to the children. They don't want a housemaid to take over your responsibilities, even if you've got a housemaid, they want you to be everywhere.
17. THEY ARE APOLOGETIC
They are apologetic when they offend their wife but just find it hard to say the word "Sorry".
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